Dear Ady,
I am a member of the bridal party in an upcoming fall wedding. In regards to thanking the bride and groom, I have always wondered what the appropriate etiquette is for bridal party members after the festivities are over. Is one to thank the bride and groom for having you participate in the special time in lives? And, if bridal party gifts are given, is a thank you gesture necessary (something other than letting them know how appreciative you are in the moment)?
Sincerely,
Mary-Elle, Cincinnati, OH
Dear ME,
While it is not necessary to send a thank-you for a thank-you, it is a lovely gesture to share your gratitude at having been a part of their special day. This can be handled by a note post-festivities, as part of the sentiment in the card accompanying their gift, or by a special note to the bride/groom on the wedding day if a gift has been sent in advance.
However, it IS appropriate (and often times forgotten) to thank the hosts for the wedding they hosted which you enjoyed. Sending a note of thanks and cheer to the hosts (for a wedding or any event) is sure to make you stand out as a gracious guest and will ensure future invitations.
A good rule of thumb...when in doubt, send a note. At the very least, you will brighten the receivers day. Everyone loves to receive a sweet piece of mail.
xo,
Ady
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